#SaynotoRape: She said No; But She Actually Wanted it... What Does "No" Means in the Female Dico

I always laugh whenever I see boys saying no means no etc. That's hypocrisy no Girls were told never to immediately accept a guy on a date, to be his girlfriend or have sex. 

Girls believed if you make sexual move and they agree immediately they will be considered cheap so they were told to always say no, stop etc it's the guy's duty to try and convince her into agreeing to sex. 

This has been the norm since the dawn of time. Girls liked it because they could form hard to get or guilt trap the guy afterwards. 99% of ladies reading this have told a guy to stop when they wanted him to continue and would mock the guy if he actually stopped. 

This led to a serious confusion, a young boy out there wouldn't know if a girl telling him to stop actually means he should stop or is telling him to try harder. This has hurt both boy and girls the mixed messages make it difficult for young boys to actually know when the girls truly want them to stop. 

 For generations, the notion that with women no means no and no means yes, yes means maybe maybe means try harder and try harder means yes etc was all over the place and women never fought against it they loved it because it made them look complicated which ended up confusing men.

 You cannot teach people no means no and no means yes and yes means no and expect them not to be confused. The truth is this, if we follow the line of no means no then every single man in the world who has ever had sex will be in jail.

 Even majority of girlfriends told their boyfriends no on the first attempt. It was a normal thing.

 I'm not talking about the normal rape we all know about, as in forcefully penetrate a ladies intimidating her with dangerous weapons or a group of people holding her her forcefully having sex with her.

Writer; Nuel(Nairaland Forum)

When a girl says “no”, you should always act as if she means “no.” Always.

• If she means “no”, you have done the right thing. Good for you!
• If she means “yes”, she’ll let you know. If she does it in a way you don’t understand — why do you want to be with someone so confusing?
• If she means “convince me”, she’ll let you know. And again, if she doesn’t — why do you want to be with someone so confusing?

Saying “no” can be an act of great courage in many societies. There are many women in India who have been scarred for life — or killed — for daring to say no. Women have been beaten and raped for saying no. You know the kinds of assholes who won’t take no — they’re the ones who caused you to ask this question!

When you take a girl’s no to mean “no”, you have passed a test. You have proven that you can listen to her, respect her, and exercise self-restraint. In other words, you show that you are a good person.

You can’t count on it… but when you stop when she says “no”, it is attractive. If not to that girl, but maybe to some other girl who wasn’t sure if she could trust you.

Writer: Merryl Gross